NO REGGIE BUSH IS NOT GAY… DON’T BE MESSY! I Love This Gif…
Men with bodies like Reggie’s and other gym rats be fooling you bottoms into thinking they’re all about the CAKES. Little did you know your TOP is somebody else’s bottom for a dime bag and some good cash.
Don’t believe me? Check your GRINDR, JACK’D, and TINDR accounts. They’re generous with the cash flow.
There’s nothing wrong with a man working with what he got to get what he wants. I don’t knock another man’s hustle. You BOTTOMS and these FAIRYTALE dreams need to stop.
THIS TITLE OF SOMEBODY BEING A STRICT TOP SHIT NEEDS TO BE REMOVED FROM Y’ALL THOUGHT PROCESS.
I love how people are quick to say that A TOP can’t let his booty get demolished… Meanwhile, their MCM in somebody’s luxury hotel or run down motel right now getting they walls greased up for the right price.
You think they’re advertising the cakes on IG for nothing? STRAIGHT MEN? TOPS?
Somebody’s down for the prize for the right price.
I would never be foolish to think a man’s appearance can stop him from liking something sexually.
Yeah, some of these men are married, chasing after pussy and got side chicks and side boys. At the end of the day. Behind closed doors, they’re down for the cause. Some of them are down for WHATEVERRRR (in my cardi b voice.)
I was going to leave this topic alone until somebody had to slide into my DM trying to argue me down…
They thought I was going to back down from an argument.
“YOU A PRESSED BOTTOM.”
I guess they thought that I was going to be bothered…
MY OPINION is MY OPINION, which is why this is MY BLOG, and I CHOOSE what I WANT to SPEAK ON, I have that right, I pay THAT bill, so it’s my shit.
If you feel the need to come back in my DM’s bring those pics you got leaked on TUMBLR. I heard you insta famous now for those arch booty shots. Too bad, your walls still got some residue in those pics. I can post whatever I choose and see fit to publish on, I have that right.
Now you worry about those untreated marks and spots on yo booty and stop trying to come for my blog boo.
Like, I’m not messy, I’m addressing a particular individual that wanted the spotlight.
BACK ON THE TOPIC AT HAND…
THESE TOPS BE BOTTOMS FOR EVERYBODY AND THEY DADDY.
WHAT YOU WON’T DO FOR THE MONEY YO TOP WILL!
I love how in 2017 we can express our interests and sexuality. These labels are nothing more than a yesterday’s news to the community. These men shouldn’t have to play up a role to be validated entirely as TOPS or MASCULINE MEN. Some of these men can very well be the next man’s bottom while serving trade realness. Why can’t we have more versatile men than strict tops? Why when a man reveals that he likes the eggplant then he’s not “MAN ENOUGH” anymore?
Judgment in this community is so venomous and messy, but as I stated in the other post, it’s all an illusion. It’s all for SHOW! These men in the gyms are the most significant bottoms around. The guys with the best bodies and the hood appeal are the main ones moaning like a real one!
They want big dacks in their booty.
So please, this whole TOPS and STRICT MASC TOPS needs to stop. I haven’t met one in years. I mean the legitimate STRICT TOPS because all the other ones been traded in their TOP cards. They got their cherry popped a long time ago.
You just stuck up on these images, videos, and illusions. That’s where they had me. Sucked, plucked and plumped in my dm’s boo. You thought I wasn’t going to entertain you. I told you this would be a post but thank you for the material.
So let’s not be ignorant and JUDGEMENTAL. Respect my views and opinions, and I’ll respect yours as well, which most people do as mature adults. Challenging me to speak my mind again, was not a problem for me. This is just another post and material for me. THANKS, ASHY CAKES.
Shout out to all my TRADE REALNESS boys that be full out BOTTOMS! You don’t have to change yourself for these shitty wet asses and flat-baked bottoms. Do what makes YOU HAPPY, and never allow Anybody to have control over your lives. BE HAPPY… DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY! MASC, FEM, BOTTOM, STRICT TOP OR IN BETWEEN!
Being Black And Gay Later In Life | How Do You Plan To Live Your Life As A Elder In The Gay Community?
We live in the moment, and most of us don’t think about life 20-30 years from now.
The generation before us saw how AIDS wiped out their peers. They witnessed an epidemic that damn near destroyed the entire community!
In my honest opinion, I will say that majority of gay men are just roaming through life and not prepared for their future.
For some people, they floated through life blinded. No careers, no goals, no direction in life.
I remember this one gentleman in his late 40’s telling me to “stay focus, stay grounded and never lose sight of your purpose.”
I refuse to be in my 50s and trying to figure out what I’ve wasted the last 30 years doing in my life.
A lot of older black gay men are struggling, and some are homeless and addicted to drugs.
Get active in preparing yourself for a better future.
Selective Homophobia: The Act Of Picking And Choosing The Acceptable Gays!
“Oh, you a cool gay bul. I don’t fuck with a lot of them. You, not a phagget, you cool with me.”
I don’t care if we’re related through marriage or blood. You going to give my fellow brothers the same respect that you give me.
If you don’t fuck with one gay or those gays, then you mind as well not fuck with me.
If you’re homophobic you’re just a homophobe.
I’ve been around countless of selective ass homophobic people.
Gay Relationship Position | Are You The Man Or The Woman? [WTF!]
I usually avoid topics like this on my blog. This was something I couldn’t ignore.
A blank profile (yeah again another dl piece in my DM’s.) Decided to hit me up. I usually avoid these accounts, but I said fuck it. So I responded.
He introduced himself (something most guys don’t even know how to do in 2018!) He told me a few things about himself. I asked for an image (I hate talking to ghost accounts), and he refused. So I was kind of over it, but then he asked me this damn question.
“So are you the man or the woman?”
I’ll let him slide because he explained that he was REALLY DL! He didn’t know shit about gay relationships or gay culture at all. All he knew was that he was a top. So by him not knowing anything, I thought I would inform him. I didn’t want to be ignorant and read and throw shade. I took my time out to educate him about the community.
Yes, some gay men follow the heteronormative but I don’t. I respect those who like to play up specific roles and positions. That’s your relationship you define it as you see fit. For my type of relationship I’m not a woman nor do I desire to be one. I am a man, and I don’t like being referenced as a “woman” or the “submissive one.”
If you like for your top to be the man in the relationship and you his main lady then cool that shit works for you, I don’t want to be labeled as a female in my relationship(s). There will be some days I want to be the aggressive or dominant partner in the relationship. I would only assume that the “man” “top” “dominant figure” in the relationship would not want that at all. So for me, I would feel forced into a role and in a box. I don’t like closed confined spaces. I like being completely liberated and having the freedom of having free will. I don’t want somebody telling me how I should act.
Some people like that role play and it’s sexy to see two men being able to carry out a particular role.
If that makes you happy fulfill it, I noticed “straight identifying” men or the real down low men make these assumptions about gay men in relationships. They assume that certain men who appear to be “feminine” are the women or portray themselves as such. That’s not my case at all. I’m very much masculine and feminine. I don’t feel like I would define myself as a female in my relationship.
I’m sure many of you have dealt with cousins asking this question or random straight men. People make these assumptions based off of what they assume makes sense, which brings out the heteronormative mindset. It’s programmed in people’s minds of having a man and a woman in a relationship, while a lot of people understand that most gay men do not define themselves as women in a relationship. Some people do, and others ignorantly say things like this in a homophobic cruel ass way.
For him, he seemed legit confused. I wasn’t going to be rude to him. I like to educate people on what I know, and he intrigued to understand.
Every person in the gay community may feel differently about this topic. Some people may feel like positions and roles are standard and should be one or the other. Other gay men may not want somebody to reference them as female not even in a gay relationship.
I think if we all respect each other then everything is fine with me. I didn’t see anything wrong with the question it was innocent.
I helped him understand a little bit about a culture that he never been around or involved with.
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