A pet peeve of mine is when a caucasian gay man thinks he can approach me to be my sex slave.
I find it so distasteful and downright prejudice and degrading. In a way, I view it as them seeing me as a racial stereotype. When you assume that I automatically play the “thug” role, then we have a problem. I am not a thug, and I would never carry myself that way. Not for you, him, or the guy with the sexy body that only desires me for a sexual fetish.
There are several adult companies. Who have wrongfully stereotyping us gay men of color on film? I blame cocodorms and those older companies for this bullshit. But now we have sites like ThugHunter, and Gay Patrol serving up racist, pornographic dialogue and content.
I don’t care how big of a check these companies cash out… There is no amount of money in the world. That would allow me to tolerate that level of disrespect. How dare you sell out your people for a cheap ass happy meal and 50 dollars? Is the money really worth you’re self-respect? What about your self-esteem? Must you carry on knowing you’ve sold your ass for a cheap spot on the hall of fame of coons?
The video comments on MyVidster are complete race war baits. They post these videos, with this misleading head titles to start fights in the comments.We shouldn’t have to argue or state the obvious about these videos. They represent racism in plain sight. What bothers me is the fact that people have the nerve to defend this content and the providers offering these services. It doesn’t matter if it is roleplaying or not. The fact they call this adult entertainment makes me sick. This is nothing more than modern day slavery depicted in porn. You have white officers threatening to “shoot the black ass down?” Really? Is that in the scripts over there at the studios?
I’m not impressed at all. WHITE STUDIO PRODUCERS AND DIRECTORS DO BETTER! When I see a man of another race referring to a black man as “black ass” on camera for your ratings, I literally cringe.
These money making machines sit back and make millions off of our images, likeness, and performance on camera. Yes, there are THUGS within the African-American community. But why can’t they display Caucasian stereotypes on film? Is it not worth enough? Does it go against the consumer’s belief system? SMH.
They pay these men pennies. They sit back and laugh at these cum face individuals. I hope they feel good lowering themselves on camera. I hope they get a good glimpse at their guilt on camera. Especially when they face themselves in the mirror trying to clean the cum off their face. I hope the little money they make is enough to buy them some self-respect after filming this type of shit. It wouldn’t be enough to clear out their damn conscious.
These companies most loyal subscribers are their primary audience. Their audience pays thousands of dollars to watch black men be degraded for damn near nothing. These men don’t even get a damn residual check. These sell-outs wouldn’t even know how to sign a damn contract, let alone be able to read one.
I am all about love among all people and races. But I can’t sit here and act like racism in porn does not exist. How the fuck you expect somebody to bust a nut if they’re hearing racist shit in the video? I damn near lost my mind coming across that vulgar language in interracial scenes. But what bothers me the most is the fact some of them approach us the same way. They may not outright call us the N-word, but they use words that come close to describe it.
Black on Black porn isn’t any better. These “PAID PLAY THUGS” do the most… The portrayal of the black man in porn is downright disgusting. Yeah, it’s a FANTASY but at whose expense? The same stereotypical image being used these porn videos are giving people validation to say it. Why the fuck would I want to be another man’s sex slave master? What type of shit is that? Then on top of that, he said some other remarks. Some hidden agenda of racism to me.
No, this post is not directed at ALL white gay men. There are some really respectful lovely caucasian gay men out there.
You will forever be viewed, as the coon on a porn set. That’s the sad part; these men don’t even care about their own reputation, let alone their own race when it comes to the mighty dollar.
Disclaimer: I am not bashing black gay porn stars, who do interracial porn. This is only for the coons of America, who allows themselves to be, portrayed, in this fashion. I REPEAT! This is not an anti-interracial gay porn post, nor am I bashing BLACK GAY MEN who do INTERRACIAL PORN.
This is only for the racist interracial porn participants and the men behind the cameras. They are aware of the backlash. They instead sell our people out for their little checks from these flopped ass studios. One site flops, and they come back with a new name but same faces? Yeah. So apparently the gimmick isn’t working. But the message is visible and still online. These videos are always floating online.
We’re not your sex toys and thug fetishes. Many of us don’t even consider ourselves of the sort. I would like to believe that as black men, we are raised to respect and honor our own. This shit is not the way to go.
But enough of these deviant ass men of color. Who would prefer to tap dance for their porn masters?
SMH. GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE WITH THAT BULLSHIT!
The stereotypes need to end with these damn adult companies. Find a new NICHE! Set up a new STORY FUCKING LINE. We also need for these men of other races to respect us. We are not THUGS, and we all do not CARRY ourselves like that. No. The majority of us will NOT be your FETISH or SEX SLAVE MASTER on some reverse psychology shit.
I don’t want any parts of that ignorant ass shit. People love interracial gay porn, and I do as well from time to time. But there’s a difference between interracial porn and downright racist porn. If they want to make a market for racist porn, then do so.But keep that shit from the general viewers. Everybody doesn’t want to see a Caucasian man call a black man all sorts of derogatory terms. It’s not okay and should not even be allowed on significant tube sites. They won’t allow blood, gore, rape, incest, etc. So why tolerate racist porn? Yeah. I’ll wait on that to be explained.
DO NOT SUPPORT SITES THAT PROMOTE RACISM.
IMAGINARY, FETISHES, STEREOTYPICAL ROLEPLAYING, FALSE IDENTIFYING COON ACTORS, ETC. NEEDS TO STOP THIS IS NOT ACCEPTABLE!
Studies Show That “Heterosexual Identifying Men” Are Having Same-Sex Experiences More Than Ever!
According to PinkNews
A significant number of straight men are now engaging in homosexual activities.
(Tell us something we don’t know!)
The researchers also found that there were distinct types of straight people who would engage in same-sex relations.
A study revealed in March that no-one is 100 percent heterosexual.
(Reading any studies articles on homosexuality and heterosexuality are always torture!)
“I think that’s happening for both sexes. It’s probably a good thing because it gives kids growing up more diversity, more options, so they don’t feel like they have to fit in [at all costs].”
Where should I start?
Sex is just sex at the end of the day.
Broderick Hunter Ain’t Here For The Disrespect | Gays Do Better!
I came across one of my follower’s tweet. He had retweeted Broderick Hunter’s tweet about gay men invading his space and touching on him. Usually, the model/actor is posting photos of his fine ass. But this was a tweet speaking against gay men disrespecting his manhood.
He does not seem happy at all by the way I read the tweet. In fact, this seems to really be bothering him. For him to address it on social media.
Most male celebs let stuff like this slide. They know we lust for them and send all types of dms and disrespectful shit. But this seems to be a problem at this point. And I’m glad he’s speaking out! This must be happening on a regular basis and I understand his frustration about it.
Now let me make this very clear! This is not a homophobic rant and rave. This man is defending himself by speaking out against the bullshit. So I’m in support of what he tweeted!
Gay men, please respect these men’s manhood. You can’t go around touching on these men. Like seriously? Just disrespectful! You wouldn’t do that shit to Chris Brown Or Trey Songz etc. So what made you feel like it was acceptable to do it to Broderick Hunter?
I understand many of you have made assumptions about these male celebs sexuality. Based on rumors or even in your own fantasy. But at the end of the day regardless of his sexual preference or style (he’s straight!). Nobody has the right to disrespect this man’s space.
He told y’all he’s straight! Now if he was to go the fuck off and dropping all types of F-bombs and shit. Then we going to wanna cry out homophobe and all sorts of dumb shit. If he swings on you then people wanna cry out hate crime.
Listen there is a line and boundary for everything! When you cross that line you’re asking for a particular reaction. This reaction was very PG but if you do that with August Alsina or any of these entertainers. You may end up getting knocked the hell out on the spot.
This man doesn’t come across as a hateful individual or even homophobic. I am a fan but I would never invade his space like that. I believe in speaking against wrong in all situations. So if you’re offended by me defending this man then so the fuck what! Nobody has the right to sexually harass somebody. It’s inappropriate regardless of how or where he was touched. Nobody has that right to cross that line. People are fucking crazy out here!
We gotta do better as a community. Because this makes us all look bad! This is how homophobia can become active for some people.
This type of behavior of certain gay men makes us all look some type of way. It’s embarrassing for a straight man to call out gay men on this type of behavior. It’s a second-hand embarrassment because you’re making it harder for us to be fucking respected by society. You giving people a reason to attack and talk bad about us. So I’m shaming all of those gay men who did this to this man. You can’t go around doing whatever you want to people gay or straight.
This happens to gay men all the time and it’s still wrong. There is a thing called sexual harassment. He ain’t no damn stripper this isn’t no catching a fucking feel. You know your place and you knew this man was not comfortable with you touching on him. Who the fuck these people think they are to do things like this? It makes me sick literally to read this man damn near beg people not to touch him.
All respect to Broderick Hunter. You are in fact a sex symbol in the gay community. So a lot of gay men will feel like it’s okay to feel on you.
Many gay men worship this man. But it doesn’t make it okay to disregard him. When he asked us, gay men, to respect his space! Then fucking respect his fucking space!Thanks for reading! Want to have your voice heard? Well, come share your opinions on black gay topics and more. Join us in one of the latest discussions over at our new social community for gay men of color! https://gaymenincolor.com/ Looking forward to engaging with you guys over there! 😉
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